Having successfully transitioned our two kids into their toddler bed, or, as my kids called it, transitioning to their “big kid bed,” I am sharing our lessons learned and other researched items to help you navigate this exciting milestone confidently.

This post is all about when to transition to a toddler bed, when to make the transition, signs my toddler is ready for a toddler bed, preparing your room for a toddler, and making the transition.

Transitioning from a crib to a toddler bed is a significant milestone for parents and children. It can be a mix of excitement and anxiety, but knowing the right time and steps can make the process smoother. Therefore, before I share the 5 practical steps for a smooth transition, I want to walk you through the signs your toddler is ready and the timing for the transition.

Signs my toddler is ready for a toddler bed

The following signs are some of the most common. Please note that every child is different. One may be ready to transition when they display just one of these signs, but another may not be ready until two or possibly more of the signs are happening. Everyone is different. This is a guide based on our experience and research.

Climbing Out of the Crib

If your little explorer has mastered the art of crib escape, it might be time to bid farewell to the crib. Safety is a top priority; frequent attempts to climb out can lead to falls and injuries. Transitioning to a toddler bed might be the next best step for safety reasons.

Showing Interest in Big Kid Beds

Is your kiddo fascinated by their older sibling’s bed or eager to climb into your bed? These could be signs that they’re ready for their own big-kid bed.

Potty Training Progress

If your child is progressing with potty training, transitioning to a toddler bed could support their newfound independence.

Having easy access to the bathroom during the night is crucial for potty training success.

Comfort with Independence

If your toddler desires more independence or autonomy, transitioning to a toddler bed could be a positive step in fostering their sense of responsibility.

Interest in Bedtime Routines

If your child shows enthusiasm for bedtime routines or enjoys helping with tasks like choosing pajamas or picking out bedtime stories, they may be ready for the added responsibility of sleeping in a toddler bed.

Sibling Influence

Sometimes, becoming an older sibling can spark your toddler’s interest in making the switch to a big-kid bed.

For us, our son transitioned out of the nursery to his own “big boy bed and room” so that we could prepare the nursery for our daughter, who was expecting to arrive in a few months.

Developmental Milestones

Look for developmental milestones such as improved language skills or enhanced motor skills, indicating your child’s possible readiness to transition to a toddler bed.

Emotional Readiness

Pay attention to your child’s emotional readiness for the transition. It may be a good time to make the switch if your child seems excited or curious about sleeping in a big-kid bed.

Physical Size

If your child is starting to outgrow their crib in terms of height or weight, it might be time to consider a toddler bed to accommodate their growing body.

Prolonged Crib Discomfort

If your child consistently expresses discomfort or frustration with being confined to their crib, despite efforts to make it comfortable and inviting, it may be a sign that they’re ready for a change.

Timing to transition from a crib to a toddler bed

The timing of the transition is as important as recognizing the signs. Here are some factors to consider:

• Age: On average, most children transition between 18 months to 3 years old.
• Developmental Stage: Ensure your child is at a stage where they can handle the change emotionally and physically. Before you sense the time is right, be sure to talk it up early and often to get them engaged and ready for the transition in their own minds.
• Life Events: Avoid transitioning during significant life changes such as moving houses, immediately after the arrival of a new sibling, or when starting daycare. This could be too much stress and anxiety for their little bodies to handle at once.

5 Practical Steps for a Smooth Transition

1. Prepare the Toddler Bed Together

Involve your child in setting up their new bed. Let them help pick out bedding and arrange their new sleep space. This can build excitement and make them feel in control and more comfortable with the change.

As mentioned in 13 Must-Have Nursery Essentials – Popular Parent Picks blog post, to help protect your mattress, you’ll want a Crib Mattress Protector that is Waterproof & Noiseless. Layer the mattress protector and sheets as described in the blog post for quicker mess clean ups.

2. Maintain a Consistent Bedtime Routine

To provide a sense of security, keep the bedtime routine consistent. Stick to the same schedule and activities, such as bath time, reading a story, and snuggling before sleep.

We established a “rest time” at least 30 minutes before our defined bedtime. We don’t allow toys or play during this time, but try to snuggle on the couch and watch a favorite show or read a bedtime story or two.

3. Childproof the Room

Ensure the bedroom is safe for your curious toddler. Anchor furniture to the wall to prevent tipping. Use Outlet covers / Outlet cover boxes to keep hazardous items out of reach. Consider installing a safety gate at the door if needed. We used the Dreambaby Gate. Otherwise, you can expect your child to make it a game to run out of their room.

4. Provide Comfort and Reassurance

The transition can be challenging, so provide extra comfort, reassurance, and grace. Stay with your child until they fall asleep initially and gradually reduce your presence as they get used to the new bed. We also talked to our kids using our Infant Optics DXR-8 Pro Monitor.

5. Be Patient and Consistent

Consistency is key. There might be some rough nights, but with patience and persistence, your child will adapt. Celebrate small successes and provide positive reinforcement.

What if My Child Keeps Getting Out of Bed?

If your child keeps getting out of bed, calmly guide them back without making it seem like it’s a game. Reinforce the importance of staying in bed until morning. Try your best to extend grace as this is a big milestone for them.

How Can I Make the New Bed More Appealing?

Let your child choose special bedding or a favorite stuffed animal to take to bed. Creating a cozy and inviting sleep space can help ease the transition. We offered small rewards if they successfully slept in their bed all night at first. Even allowing them to pick their favorite small treat the night before provided positive motivation, which was their idea.

Is It Okay to Transition During a Sibling’s Arrival?

It depends on your child’s adaptability. Some children might find comfort in a new bed, while others might feel overwhelmed. Gauge your child’s readiness and make the transition as smooth as possible.

However, if you can help it, we don’t recommend making the transition at the same time as the arrival of a sibling arrival. This is because you all will already be working hard adjusting to life with another baby.

Before our daughter arrived, we transitioned our son using these same techniques. We worked on this a few months before the arrival date so that he could be used to the established routine and change.

Final Thoughts

Transitioning to a toddler bed is a big step, but with the right approach, it can be a positive experience for both you and your child. Recognize the signs, choose the right time, and follow practical steps to ensure a smooth transition. Remember, every child is different, so trust your instincts and do what feels right for your family. You got this! Happy transitioning!

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